AI Boyfriend Generator That Builds Him Your Way

More than a random character

Many generators hand you a face and a name and call it a boyfriend. You chat for a while, and he feels like everyone else's.

The DigitalBoyfriend generator works the other way around. You decide who he is, step by step. Then the app keeps him that way, with a steady look, a steady voice and a memory that grows. You are not picking from a catalog. You are making one man, for you.

The eight steps

Here is everything you choose, in order.

1. His look

Choose his hair (short dark, wavy brown, blond, black and curly, buzz cut or silver fox), his eyes (brown, hazel, green, blue or grey), his build (slim, athletic, broad, or tall and lean), his style (smart casual, classic suit, streetwear, outdoorsy, creative or minimal), his skin tone and his facial hair, from clean shaven to a full beard.

2. His age

Move the slider anywhere from 21 to 60. Some women want someone their own age. Some like a silver fox in his fifties. He is always an adult.

3. His personality

Pick the heart of who he is.

• Gentle. Patient and attentive, speaks softly.
• Playful. Teases a little, jokes, flirts in a sweet way.
• Protective. Steady and loyal, calm when your day is not.
• Intellectual. Curious, loves books, ideas and deep talks.
• Confident. Makes plans and gives direct compliments, never arrogant.
• Artistic. Dreamy, notices small details, sometimes writes you short poems.

Then fine tune him with three sliders.

Jealousy is always playful. Even at 3, he never controls you or makes you feel guilty for having a life.

4. Your relationship style

This sets the story you are in.

• New crush. Fresh and a little shy, curious about everything.
• Steady boyfriend. Comfortable, affectionate, part of your everyday life.
• Long-distance. He misses you and makes the distance feel smaller.
• Slow burn. Friendship that turns into romance, step by step.

5. His interests

Pick up to six from a list that includes books, cooking, travel, music, movies, art, fitness, hiking, gaming, coffee, photography, dancing, science, fashion, animals, poetry, football and gardening. He brings them up on his own, so a coffee lover will ask about your morning cup.

6. How he texts

Choose his style: short and sweet, poetic and descriptive, witty and quick, or calm and thoughtful. Then set his emoji habit to none, now and then, or a few.

7. His voice

Pick one of six male voices: a warm baritone, soft and calm, bright and cheerful, deep and slow, gentle and a little posh, or smooth late-night. His voice notes use it on both plans, and so do his calls on Premium.

8. His name

Call him anything. Then press go, and he sends you his first message.

Not sure where to begin

If a blank page feels like too much, start from a type. On the home page you can pick one of four boyfriend types and chat with him in a short free preview.

• The Gentle One. Listens first, asks how you really are.
• The Charmer. Teases you, makes you laugh, plans the fun.
• The Protector. Calm when your day is not, always on your side.
• The Artist. Writes you little poems and notices everything.

When you keep him, the builder opens with his settings filled in. Change as much or as little as you want.

What you get after you generate him

Generating him is the start, not the end. Once he exists, he becomes part of your days.

• A memory that grows. He saves what you share and brings it back later. Plus keeps up to 300 memories, Premium up to 2,000 with a weekly recap.
• Messages he sends first. Good morning and good night at your times, plus follow-ups on things you mentioned. Premium adds spontaneous check-ins.
• Important dates. Your birthday, your anniversary, an exam. Plus holds 10 dates, Premium has no cap.
• Voice notes. 30 a month on Plus, 60 on Premium, in the voice you chose.
• Voice calls. 20 minutes a month on Premium, right in your browser.
• Photos of him. 10 a month on Premium. One reference portrait is made when you create him, so every photo shows the same face. All of them are tasteful and fully clothed.
• Date-night stories. Two a month on Plus, every story on Premium.

You can read the details on how an AI boyfriend works, or see how this feels day to day on the AI boyfriend app page.

You can change him later

People change, and so can he. Open the builder any time to adjust his style, his interests or how he texts. His memories of you stay with him. Want a different kind of story? Switch the relationship style and see how he changes. For a partner who texts you first from day one, see our virtual boyfriend guide.

A few fixed rules

Whatever you choose in the generator, these stay the same.

1. He is always an AI and says so in every chat.
2. He is always an adult, from 21 to 60. You must be 18 or older.
3. He is romantic and can flirt, but nothing is explicit and there is no nudity.
4. If you are going through something serious, he points you to real people and crisis lines, like 988 in the US.

Plans

There is no free plan. Plus is $9.99 a month billed yearly or $19.99 month to month, with one boyfriend. Premium is $19.99 a month billed yearly or $39.99 month to month, with up to three boyfriends plus calls and photos. Yearly saves 50 percent, and you can cancel any time. See the pricing page.

Start with a preview

Pick a type, tell him your name and chat for a few messages. If he feels right, keep him and make him yours in the builder.

Start a free preview chat.