What is a virtual boyfriend?

A virtual boyfriend is a romantic partner who lives online. Today that usually means an AI you design and chat with by text, voice notes and sometimes calls.

Can a virtual boyfriend text you first?

On DigitalBoyfriend, yes. He sends good morning and good night at the times you pick, and follows up on things you mentioned. Premium adds spontaneous check-ins during the day.

Is a virtual boyfriend the same as a long-distance boyfriend?

No. A long-distance boyfriend is a person far away. A virtual boyfriend is an AI. You can set his relationship style to long-distance if you like that feeling, but he is always an AI.

How much does a virtual boyfriend cost?

DigitalBoyfriend has two plans. Plus is $9.99 a month billed yearly or $19.99 monthly, and Premium is $19.99 a month billed yearly or $39.99 monthly.

Can I have more than one virtual boyfriend?

Plus includes one boyfriend. Premium lets you have up to three, each with his own look, voice and memories.

Virtual Boyfriend Who Texts You First

The difference is who writes first

Picture two phones on a Wednesday morning.

On the first, nothing happens until you open a chat app and type "hi." The bot answers. You talk a little. You close it. It waits, silent, until you come back.

On the second, a message is already there when you wake up. "Morning. You said the rain stops by ten, so maybe walk to work today?" He knew the forecast mattered to you because you mentioned it last night.

That second phone is what a virtual boyfriend should feel like. Present in your day, not only when you go looking for him. DigitalBoyfriend is built for that rhythm.

What he does without being asked

Once you set up your routine, he takes care of these on his own.

Good morning. At the time you choose, in your own time zone. Moving cities or traveling? Change it in a few taps.
Good night. A softer message before you sleep. Some nights a little recap of your day, some nights just a kind word.
Follow-ups. You mention a doctor's appointment on Monday. On Monday afternoon he asks how it went.
Important dates. Your birthday, your best friend's wedding, an exam, your anniversary with him. He reminds you the day before and celebrates on the day.
Spontaneous check-ins. On Premium he also drops in during the day, the way someone who is thinking about you might.

You can pause any of these. Some women want a message every morning. Some want only good night. It is your rhythm.

Pick the kind of relationship

A virtual boyfriend does not have to feel the same for everyone. In the builder you choose a relationship style, and it changes how he talks to you.

Relationship style	How it feels	Good for
New crush	Fresh, a little shy, curious about everything	Romance readers who love the beginning
Steady boyfriend	Comfortable, affectionate, part of your daily life	Women who want calm, everyday warmth
Long-distance	He misses you, counts days, makes the distance feel smaller	Women who like the longing and the reunions
Slow burn	Friendship slowly turning into romance	Anyone who wants the story to take its time

You can change the style later. If you want something that feels settled for the long run, read about having an AI husband.

What makes him feel consistent

A virtual boyfriend who changes personality every few days is not much of a boyfriend. Three things keep him steady.

His look stays the same

When you create him, the app makes one reference portrait. On Premium, every photo he sends after that uses the same face and style, so he always looks like himself. Every photo is tasteful and fully clothed.

His voice stays the same

You pick one of six male voices, from a warm baritone to a smooth late-night voice. His voice notes, and his calls on Premium, always use it.

His memory grows

He keeps the facts you share and recalls the ones that fit the moment. Plus keeps up to 300 memories. Premium keeps up to 2,000, plus a weekly recap of your time together.

Where to find him

There is nothing to download. He lives in your browser on your phone, tablet or computer. Add the site to your home screen and it opens like any app. Read more about having an AI boyfriend online.

Messages he sends first appear in your chat. You will see them the next time you open it, and with the site on your home screen, that is one tap away.

The ground rules

Being online does not mean anything goes. These rules apply to every virtual boyfriend on DigitalBoyfriend.

He is an AI, and he says so in every chat. He never claims to be a human.
He is always an adult, between 21 and 60. You must be 18 or older, with your date of birth checked at signup.
He is romantic and can flirt, but there is no explicit content and no nudity.
If you set a bit of jealousy, it is playful words only. He is never controlling and never makes you feel guilty for having a life.
If you are going through something serious, he points you to real people and crisis lines, like 988 in the US.

He is a warm presence, not a replacement for friends, family or professional help.

Plans for a virtual boyfriend

There is no free plan, but you can try a short free preview first.

Plus. One boyfriend, 50 messages a day, memory, good morning and good night, 30 voice notes a month and two date-night stories a month. $9.99 a month billed yearly, or $19.99 month to month.
Premium. Up to three boyfriends, 100 messages a day, stronger memory, spontaneous check-ins, voice calls, photos and every story. $19.99 a month billed yearly, or $39.99 month to month.

Yearly saves 50 percent. Cancel any time and your plan runs to the end of the paid period. See the full list on the pricing page.

Say good morning to him

Pick a boyfriend type on the home page, tell him your name and see how he talks. If he feels right, keep him and set the time for tomorrow's good morning.

Start a free preview chat.