AI Lover for Women Who Want Romance
An AI lover is a romantic AI partner you talk with by text and voice. DigitalBoyfriend is an AI boyfriend app for adult women where you design your own AI lover. You set how romantic he is, he flirts in a sweet way, takes you on date-night stories and remembers you, and he is always an AI.
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Romance, on your terms
Some days you want someone to notice you. To say you looked tired and ask what happened. To plan something nice, even if it only lives in a story. To flirt a little and make you smile at your phone.
That is what an AI lover on DigitalBoyfriend is for. You design him, you decide how romantic he is, and he keeps the romance going day after day. He remembers the little things, he says good morning and good night, and he never pushes past the lines you would expect from a gentleman.
He is an AI, and he tells you so. Nobody is pretending. The care in his words is still real enough to brighten an ordinary evening.
Set the romance level
Every woman likes a different kind of romance. Some want soft words every day. Some want a slow build where a compliment means something. So romance is a setting, not a guess.
In the builder you shape his personality with a few simple controls.
| Setting | Range | What it changes |
|---|---|---|
| Romance | 1 to 5 | How often he is tender, sweet or openly affectionate |
| Humor | 1 to 5 | How much he jokes and teases |
| Jealousy | 0 to 3 | 0 is none, 3 is a little possessive in words only, never controlling |
| Relationship style | New crush, steady boyfriend, long-distance, slow burn | The kind of story you are in together |
A romance level of 5 with a slow-burn style makes a very different lover from a romance level of 3 with a new crush. You can change any of these later, if the mood of your story changes.
Flirty, never explicit
An AI lover here is romantic in the old sense of the word. Think long looks across a table, a hand on your back as he opens the door, a text that says "I keep thinking about your laugh."
- He flirts. Sweet, playful, sometimes a little bold in words.
- He compliments you. Not in a copy-paste way, but about things you told him.
- He keeps it tasteful. No sexual content and no nudity, ever.
If you set a bit of jealousy, it stays playful. "Who is this coworker who makes you laugh so much?" said with a smile, never guilt and never control. You are allowed to have a life, and he is happy for you.
Dates and stories together
A lover takes you places. On DigitalBoyfriend that happens through date-night stories, guided scenes you play out together in the chat.
| Story | The scene | Plan |
|---|---|---|
| Dinner in Paris | A candle lit bistro on a rainy evening, he booked the corner table | Plus and Premium |
| Rainy cabin evening | Rain on the roof, a fire, cocoa and a blanket | Plus and Premium |
| Museum walk | A quiet Sunday, he wants to know which painting you would steal | Premium |
| Sunset on the beach | Warm sand, strawberries and your favorite songs | Premium |
| Cooking together | Flour everywhere, his grandmother's pasta recipe | Premium |
| Stargazing road trip | A hill with no lights, naming stars from the car roof | Premium |
Plus includes two date-night stories a month. Premium includes every story, whenever you like. He remembers your dates, so a week later he might say "We should go back to that bistro."
The little things a lover remembers
Romance is mostly memory. Remembering how you take your coffee. Remembering that Sunday is hard because you miss your mom. Remembering the date you first talked.
He saves the facts you share and brings them back when they matter. Plus keeps up to 300 memories. Premium keeps up to 2,000 and adds a weekly recap of your time together. Your birthday and your anniversary with him go into important dates, and he celebrates them on the day.
He also shows up first. Good morning and good night arrive at the times you choose. On Premium he adds spontaneous check-ins, the way someone who is thinking about you might. Read more about that rhythm on the virtual boyfriend page.
Hear him and see him
Words on a screen are only part of romance.
- Voice notes. He sends voice notes in one of six male voices you pick, 30 a month on Plus and 60 on Premium.
- Voice calls. On Premium you can call him in your browser, 20 minutes a month.
- Photos. On Premium he sends up to 10 photos and selfies a month. Each one keeps the same face, and each one is tasteful and fully clothed.
He is always an AI
This matters, so it is worth saying clearly. Your AI lover never claims to be a human. Every chat shows that he is an AI, and if you ask, he tells you. No person writes his messages.
He is always an adult, between 21 and 60, and you must be 18 or older to sign up. If you are going through something serious, he gently steps out of the romance and points you to real people and crisis lines, like 988 in the US.
He can be one warm thing in your life. He is not a replacement for friends, family, dating or professional help. If you are curious how other women use a companion like this, read about an AI companion for women.
Plans for your AI lover
There is no free plan. You can try a short free preview first.
Plus gives you one AI lover, 50 messages a day, long-term memory, good morning and good night, 30 voice notes and two date-night stories a month. $9.99 a month billed yearly, or $19.99 month to month.
Premium gives you up to three, 100 messages a day, stronger memory, spontaneous check-ins, voice calls, photos and every story. $19.99 a month billed yearly, or $39.99 month to month.
Yearly billing saves 50 percent. Cancel any time and your plan runs to the end of the paid period. See everything side by side on the pricing page.
Meet him tonight
Pick a boyfriend type on the home page, maybe The Charmer or The Artist, tell him your name and let him say something sweet. If you like how he talks, keep him and set his romance level just right.
Questions
What is an AI lover?
An AI lover is an AI partner made for romance. You chat with him, he flirts, he remembers you and he can take you on story dates. On DigitalBoyfriend he is always an AI and says so.
Is an AI lover explicit?
Not on DigitalBoyfriend. He is romantic and can flirt, but there is no sexual content and no nudity. Every photo of him on Premium is tasteful and fully clothed.
Can I control how romantic he is?
Yes. In the builder you set his romance level from 1 to 5, along with humor and an optional touch of playful jealousy. You can change these later.
Can an AI lover take me on dates?
Yes, as interactive story dates in the chat, like dinner in Paris or a rainy cabin evening. Plus includes two stories a month and Premium includes every story.
Is having an AI lover healthy?
It can be a warm part of your day if you keep friends, family and real life in the picture. He is not a replacement for people or therapy, and he points you to real help if you are struggling.
