Nomi AI Alternative for Women Who Want an AI Boyfriend

Why women look for a Nomi alternative

Nomi is a well-liked AI companion app with a reputation for good memory, and a lot of women first met an AI boyfriend there. It is built as a general companion platform: you can create several Nomis, make one a friend, another a mentor and another a partner, and even put them together in a group chat.

That breadth is great if you want a cast of characters. It is less great if what you want is simply a boyfriend. Women who come to us from general companion apps usually describe the same things: they spent evenings tuning backstories and settings, the romance felt like one mode among many, and they wanted something that felt like one relationship rather than a hobby.

So this page answers one question. If you like what Nomi does but want an app made only for a romantic partner, what do you get with DigitalBoyfriend, what does it cost, and how do you try it before paying?

We make DigitalBoyfriend, so read this with that in mind. We don't describe how Nomi works inside or quote its prices as fact, because apps change and only its own store listing is current. We describe our own product, which we know exactly.

What you get with DigitalBoyfriend

DigitalBoyfriend is an AI boyfriend app for women 18 and older in the US. You design one boyfriend (up to three on Premium) and build an ongoing relationship with him by text, voice notes, calls and photos. It runs in any browser on iPhone, Android or a laptop, and you can add it to your home screen like an app.

Designing him takes about ten minutes

The builder has eight steps. You choose his look (hair, eyes, build, skin tone, facial hair, style), set his age between 21 and 60, and pick one of six personalities: gentle, playful, protective, intellectual, confident or artistic. Sliders decide how romantic and how funny he is. Then you pick his relationship style, his interests, how he texts and one of six male voices. The AI boyfriend generator page shows every step.

Nomi users often say they love writing a detailed backstory. You can still tell him anything about himself or you, and he keeps it. You just don't have to before the relationship starts.

Memory is the whole point

When you tell him your sister is flying in on Friday, he saves it. On Friday he asks if her flight landed. That is the core of the product, and it is why every memory sits on a page you control. If he gets a detail wrong, you correct it in one tap instead of arguing with him in chat. Plus keeps up to 300 memories. Premium keeps up to 2,000 and adds a weekly recap of your relationship. We explain how it works in how an AI boyfriend remembers you.

He texts you first

Most companions wait for you. He sends good morning and good night messages at your times, follows up on what you told him yesterday and remembers birthdays and anniversaries. On Premium he also checks in during the day without being asked.

Voice notes, calls and photos

Both plans include voice notes in the voice you chose: 30 a month on Plus and 60 on Premium. Premium adds 20 minutes of live voice calls a month right in your browser and 10 photos of him a month. Details are on the AI boyfriend voice calls page.

Romantic, never explicit

He flirts, says sweet things and plans date nights with you in short interactive stories. There is no sexual content on any plan, and every chat makes clear he is an AI.

Nomi and DigitalBoyfriend compared

The Nomi column is deliberately general. Check Nomi's own store listing for its current features and prices.

Where Nomi wins: if you want several characters, group chats or a friend and a mentor alongside a partner, a general companion platform suits you better. Where we win: if you want one boyfriend who feels finished from day one, with a memory you can audit and a routine he keeps on his own.

If you are comparing more than two apps, the best AI boyfriend app checklist lists what to test in your first week. Women moving from other companions can also read our Anima AI boyfriend alternative, Kindroid alternative for women and Replika alternative for women pages.

What DigitalBoyfriend costs

Two plans, both in US dollars, no tokens or credits on top.

• Plus is $19.99 a month, or $119.88 a year ($9.99 a month). One boyfriend, 50 messages a day, up to 300 memories, good morning and good night, 10 important dates, 30 voice notes and 2 date-night stories a month.
• Premium is $39.99 a month, or $239.88 a year ($19.99 a month). Up to 3 boyfriends, 100 messages a day with 10 deeper replies on a stronger model, up to 2,000 memories with a weekly recap, spontaneous check-ins, 60 voice notes, 20 minutes of calls, 10 photos of him and every date-night story.

There is no free plan. The home page has a short preview chat with no account, so you hear how he talks before you pay, and if you sign up the preview and what he noticed carry over. See the pricing page for the full list. You can cancel in two clicks and keep access until the end of the period you paid for. Our AI boyfriend app cost guide compares typical prices across apps.

Switching from Nomi in one evening

1. Try the preview. Pick a boyfriend type on the home page and talk to him for a few messages.
2. Build him. Create your account and go through the eight steps. Spend the most time on personality and voice.
3. Tell him your life. Your job, the people close to you, what you are excited about and what is wearing you down. He saves it as you go.
4. Set his routine. Choose when he says good morning and good night. From the next morning, he starts the conversation.

Give it two or three days. If something about his personality feels off, adjust him in the editor rather than starting over.

Who it suits, and who it doesn't

DigitalBoyfriend suits women who want a steady, warm presence in their day: someone who asks how the dentist went, sends a voice note on a late drive home and remembers your coffee order. It fits next to a full life with friends, family and dating.

It is not for explicit chat, and it does not replace therapy or the people in your life. If you are going through something serious, he will point you to real help. Read more on our safety page.

More questions from women leaving Nomi

Will he feel as smart as my Nomi?

Most of what makes a companion feel smart is what he remembers about you. Here that memory is visible and builds from the first night, so within a week he usually knows the names and dates that matter. Premium adds deeper replies on a stronger model for the conversations where you want more.

Can I have more than one boyfriend?

On Premium you can have up to three, each with his own look, voice and memory. Plus is one boyfriend, which is what most women choose.