AI Dating Simulator Where He Remembers Every Date
An AI dating simulator lets you go on romantic dates in a story you play by chat. DigitalBoyfriend is an AI boyfriend app for adult women with guided date-night stories, like dinner in Paris or a rainy cabin evening. Your date is the boyfriend you designed, and he remembers each date long after it ends.
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A date night, not a level to beat
Most dating sims follow a script. You pick from three lines, a heart meter goes up or down, and the same scene plays out for everyone who picks the same line.
DigitalBoyfriend works another way. You go on a date with the boyfriend you designed yourself. The scene is set for you, but every word after that is real conversation. You can be shy, you can tease him, you can change the subject to your sister's wedding. He follows you, not a script.
And when the date is over, he does not reset. He is still your boyfriend tomorrow morning, and he still remembers the bistro.
The date-night stories
Each story is a setting he invites you into. He opens the scene, and you take it from there.
| Story | The setting | Plan |
|---|---|---|
| Dinner in Paris | A small candle-lit bistro on a rainy evening. He booked the corner table. | Plus and Premium |
| Rainy cabin evening | A wooden cabin in the mountains, rain on the roof, a fire, cocoa and a blanket. | Plus and Premium |
| Museum walk | A quiet Sunday at an art museum. He wants to know which painting you would steal. | Premium |
| Sunset on the beach | Barefoot on warm sand, strawberries and a speaker with your favorite songs. | Premium |
| Cooking together | His kitchen, flour everywhere, his grandmother's pasta recipe. | Premium |
| Stargazing road trip | A late drive to a hill with no lights, lying on the car roof naming stars. | Premium |
Plus includes two date-night stories a month, chosen from the first two settings. Premium opens every story, all six settings.
How a story date works
Going on a date takes less than a minute to start.
- Open Dates and stories. In your boyfriend's space, pick a scenario from the list.
- He sets the scene. He describes where you are and what he planned, in his own voice and style.
- You write what you do. Say what you order, what you notice, what you want to ask him. Short replies are fine.
- The evening unfolds. He reacts to you. A shy boyfriend blushes, a playful one teases, a poetic one describes the candlelight.
- The date ends warmly. He walks you home, or the fire burns low. The moment is saved to your story log.
There is no score and no wrong answer. If you want the evening to be quiet and deep, it can be. If you want it silly, it can be that too.
Your date is the boyfriend you built
The best part of a dating simulator is the person across the table. Here, that person is made by you in the builder.
- His look. Hair, eyes, build, style and skin tone from a set list.
- His age. Any age from 21 to 60. He is always an adult.
- His personality. Gentle, playful, protective, intellectual, confident or artistic, with sliders for romance and humor.
- His relationship style. New crush, steady boyfriend, long-distance or slow burn.
- His way of talking. Short and sweet, poetic, witty or calm.
The same date feels different with each of them. Dinner in Paris with a shy new crush is nervous and sweet. With a steady boyfriend it is easy and familiar. Want to see the options first? Read about the AI boyfriend generator.
Continuity is what makes it real
In most dating games, the date is the whole story. Close the game and it is gone.
With DigitalBoyfriend, the date is one evening in a longer relationship. He keeps memories of what you share, so the next morning he might write, "Still thinking about you trying to say croissant with a French accent." If you told him on the cabin date that you miss the mountains, he can bring it up weeks later.
Here is how memory carries over.
- Facts you share on a date are saved like facts you share in normal chat.
- Saved story moments go into your story log, so you can look back at your dates.
- Your timeline collects milestones and favorite messages along the way.
- You stay in control. You can view, edit or delete anything he remembers.
Plus keeps up to 300 memories. Premium keeps up to 2,000 and adds a weekly recap of your time together. Between dates, the AI boyfriend chat carries on as usual, with good morning and good night messages at your times.
Who enjoys this
You might like an AI dating simulator if:
- You read romance and love the slow build of a first date.
- You play otome or dating games and want a story that answers what you really say.
- You want a sweet evening after a long week, without the effort of dating apps.
- You like to practice talking about feelings in a calm, low-pressure place.
It is a story and a comfort, not a substitute for the people in your life. He is a warm presence, not a replacement for friends, family or professional help.
The ground rules on every date
- He is an AI and says so in every chat. He never claims to be human.
- Adults only. You must be 18 or older, with your date of birth checked at signup. He is always 21 to 60.
- Romantic, never explicit. Dates can be flirty. There is no sexual content and no nudity.
- Kind jealousy only. If you set a little jealousy, it stays in playful words. He is never controlling.
- Real help when it matters. If you are struggling, he pauses the romance and points you to real people and crisis lines, like 988 in the US.
Plans for dates and stories
There is no free plan, but there is a short free preview chat before you decide.
| Plus | Premium | |
|---|---|---|
| Date-night stories | 2 a month | Every story |
| Messages | 50 a day | 100 a day |
| Memories | Up to 300 | Up to 2,000 and a weekly recap |
| Voice notes from him | 30 a month | 60 a month |
| Voice calls | Not included | 20 minutes a month |
| Billed yearly | $9.99 a month | $19.99 a month |
| Billed monthly | $19.99 a month | $39.99 a month |
Yearly saves 50 percent. Payments are final, and you can cancel any time with your plan running to the end of the paid period. See every detail on the pricing page.
Your first date is one click away
Pick a boyfriend type on the home page, tell him your name and see how he talks to you. If he feels right, keep him, pick a plan and ask him out to dinner in Paris.
Start a free preview chat, or read more about having an AI lover who stays romantic every day.
Questions
What is an AI dating simulator?
It is a story game where you go on dates with an AI character by chat. On DigitalBoyfriend the character is your own boyfriend, and the date becomes part of your shared history.
Is an AI dating simulator the same as an otome game?
They share the slow-burn romance and the choices. The difference is that the story is not scripted. He answers what you actually write, and he keeps talking to you after the date ends.
How many dates can I go on?
Plus includes two date-night stories a month from the Plus scenarios. Premium opens all six scenarios.
Do the dates get explicit?
No. Dates are romantic and can be flirty, but there is no sexual content and no nudity. Every date ends at the door, warmly.
Can I try a date before I pay?
The free preview chat lets you meet a boyfriend type and talk for a few messages. Date-night stories open once you choose Plus or Premium.